Author Archives: heauxlycoitus

CLICK HERE TO LISTEN TO THIS EPISODE!! I was raised as a Seventh-Day Adventist pastor’s kid, attending SDA schools through college. While I never really bought into it and mostly stopped going to church in my 20s, I didn’t start deconstruction and doing trauma therapy until last year at 42 years old. Through deconstructing andContinue reading “S1E37. Beth’s Heaux Story: SDA Pastor’s Kid, Marriage, New Lesbian”

CLICK HERE TO LISTEN TO THIS EPISODE!! Patrick @secure_not_pure is from Germany and has American roots – not only by blood, but he considers himself a transatlantic dropout from 1990s American purity culture. His ongoing journey of de/reconstruction has led him away from toxic church structures and a static view of the divine, towards aContinue reading “S1E36. Patrick’s Heaux Story: Polyamory, Parenting, and European Seculiarism”

CLICK HERE TO LISTEN TO THIS EPISODE!! I was raised in the fundamentalist Evangelical Christian movement, where there were very strict predetermined ideas of what was acceptable, holy, and sacred, and what was considered rebellious, evil, and profane. When I started exploring outside of those strict beliefs, I discovered to my surprise, that the sacredContinue reading “S1E35. Sarah’s Heaux Story: Loving after Death, Healing from C-PTSD and Religious Abuse, Wholeness”

CLICK HERE TO LISTEN TO THIS PODCAST EPISODE! Untamed and unpolished, I’ve always struggled with acne and a distorted view on beauty being done up. Over the course of Covid and the world shutting down I embraced getting real with myself, makeup was prolonging my acne and not being true to myself was causing stressContinue reading “S1E33. Suzii’s Heaux Story: Finding love, learning through mistakes, and Vulnerability”

CLICK HERE TO LISTEN TO THIS EPISODE!! CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE TASHA’S BOOK!! In this episode, triggering life situations and trauma are discussed. Do take care as you listen and do what’s best for you. It’s ok to not be ok. We here are Heauxly Coitus LOVE therapy and LOVE mental health professionals. For resources,Continue reading “S1E32. Tasha’s Heaux Story: Overcoming the Drug Addiction I Never Had”

It’s awkward for me to post a picture of myself. Not because I am self conscious of my body. But it feels weird to say “hey, this is a picture of me that is sexual.” I think it may be due to the fact that humility was hammered into me at a young age andContinue reading “S1E31. BJ’s Heaux Story: Body Image, Marriage Coitus, Shamefree Parenting”

CLICK HERE TO LISTEN TO THIS EPISODE!! It’s awkward for me to post a picture of myself. Not because I am self conscious of my body. But it feels weird to say “hey, this is a picture of me that is sexual.” I think it may be due to the fact that humility was hammeredContinue reading “S1E31. BJ’s Heaux Story: Body Image, Marriage Coitus, Shamefree Parenting”

CLICK HERE TO LISTEN TO LISTEN TO THIS EPISODE! Y’all. I popped The Divorced Virgin’s podcast cherry! Check out her very first podcast interview here!🍒💦 @thedivorcedvirgin Evangelical. Purity culture survivor. The difficult, fun and crazy journey of a divorced virgin to self-proclaimed whore. “A heaux is a woman who is taking back her power andContinue reading “S1E30. The Divorced Virgin’s Heaux Story: Purity Culture, Divorced Virgin, and Now Self-Proclaimed Whore”

CLICK HERE TO LISTEN TO THIS EPISODE!! My name is Pratibha Dey, Founder @ Chai Together. A video podcast showcasing mental health journeys. I am a treatment specialist for men in domestic violence and I provide mental health support for engineers in the Cyberspace. I enjoy wheel throwing(pottery), current book interest is Osho’s “The BookContinue reading “S1E29. Pratibha’s Heaux Story: Mental Health, Life After Abortion, Spiritual Practices”

CLICK HERE TO LISTEN TO THIS EPISODE! Shannon TL Kearns is a transgender man who believes in the transformative power of story. He is an ordained priest, a playwright, and a theologian. He is the co-founder of QueerTheology.com which has reached more than a million people all over the world through videos, articles, and onlineContinue reading “S1E28. Father Shannon’s Heaux Story: Author, Former Christian Fundamentalist, Now Transgender Theologian”